I'd like to think there are some positives, jb, but no, I'm not going to put a lot of stock into her promise to walk the straight-and-narrow while we are separated, especially when she has now informed me that OM may be moving from Colorado to back east.
I knew you were smarter than that.
Originally Posted By: Telemark
Bought a new bed and bedroom set today. W had questioned my desire to do that when we were talking about the division of property. She thought I would be perfectly OK staying in my son's bedroom and sleeping in his twin bed. Sorry, dear...I'm not going to live like a college student again just because you are chasing your selfish needs.
Love it. LOVE it!
Originally Posted By: Telemark
Getting my own things is empowering. I'm looking forward to making the house mine. Next step - the man-sized TV with a bitchin' sound system (since she's taking the one we have now...).
Sweet! If we were on FB right now, it would say jbnati "likes" this!
I think you have the right idea and the right attitude. I know it feels good because I went through the same thing. It is liberating.
