IDK. I really don't want to talk to anyone who can't work on themselves now.
This may be something to work on
How ... what would that look like?
Right now I feel like writing a letter to my father. I am, though I don't know if I'll send it. Basically saying I take care of myself and am working on me - I'll be more inclined to spend time with you etc if you can do the same.
Otherwise, I just avoid him - and I say nothing or make excuses.
Same with my sister - I can't deal with her B.S. so I send a quick note, say "i have all the support I need" and then just don't respond after that.
But I'm not sure if it's the best way of handling it.
