I'd like to think there are some positives, jb, but no, I'm not going to put a lot of stock into her promise to walk the straight-and-narrow while we are separated, especially when she has now informed me that OM may be moving from Colorado to back east.

But it is what it is, and I'm not going to dwell on "what-ifs".

Bought a new bed and bedroom set today. W had questioned my desire to do that when we were talking about the division of property. She thought I would be perfectly OK staying in my son's bedroom and sleeping in his twin bed. Sorry, dear...I'm not going to live like a college student again just because you are chasing your selfish needs.

Getting my own things is empowering. I'm looking forward to making the house mine. Next step - the man-sized TV with a bitchin' sound system (since she's taking the one we have now...).


H 56
W 48
D27,S21
SS25
SS22 Severely autistic
M(#2 for both) 9 1/2 yrs.
"I've never loved you" 3/7/2011
Separated 8/7/2011
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