Says she knows she needs to sit down for counseling when she gets back and figure out why she can't let go of things I've "done" in the past but at the same time, sees herself being able to be with OM before she can see herself being with me. Says she doesn't know if she can honestly say she respects OM because she hasn't known him long enough but that he's "proven" himself to her. Says there are different kinds of love and her love for him is growing and of course, what would be complete without telling me about everything I've done wrong since 2004?
mgm, it seems to me like she sees being with OM as being easier than working through your issues with you. If she can't figure out how to work through the issues with you, she also won't be able to do it with OM. She will be back in this same boat again. Hopefully she will see a good IC when she gets back.
This seems to be a pattern with several of us around here. Our WASs are harboring hurts from the past. They are not learning the true meaning of forgiveness.
