9,

You sound like a good dude, and to be honest, what you did is absolutely fine in the confines of a healthy relationship.

But your relationship is SOOOO far from healthy as is your W and possibly yourself.

Individual help and growth for you, and your W. Note the word INDIVIDUAL!!!

Than maybe you can get your M back on track.

It will take strength 9, but it is the best gift you can give yourself, your W and your M...


M: 42 - W: 41 - M: 18 - T: 23 - D:16 S:14
EA - July 2010
NC w/EA - Nov 2010
Piecing - Jan 2011
I ask for div - Jan 2012
Div papers filed - Mar 2012
I move out - July 2012
Divorce final - Nov 7, 2012