She seems to be more stressed about following through with her "plan" than I am.
Kind of interesting, isn't it? My W was the same way.
Originally Posted By: Telemark
We agreed to not pursue a divorce, and let the separation be nothing more than that. We also agreed to not pursue other relationships. Whether she ramps up her long-distance relationship with the OM or not is out of my control, but I think she is so emotionally drained that, like me, she is going to work on getting herself right. We even joked about dating each other again, which in my mind could be fun.
It looks like there's some positives in there. I would say the pursuit of other relationships on her part witht a grain of salt, and I believe you are. Hopefully she will work on getting herself right.
