There's a bunch of us here at the same crossroads...dg, you (GALman), jbnati, any chance?, luvmyhubby, paige40, a girl..(sorry if I missed anyone - speak up if I did!)
Accountability...that is what we all need to practice with each other. Like dg said in an earlier post, this forum has been a lifesaver for me - for us. Even though we have never met face-to-face, we all feel a connection here that has helped keep us afloat.
Sorry to hijack, dg, but I thought it was worth saying.
H 56 W 48 D27,S21 SS25 SS22 Severely autistic M(#2 for both) 9 1/2 yrs. "I've never loved you" 3/7/2011 Separated 8/7/2011 BITS