My son asked whether I was coming along and I told him that I wasn't able to as I hadn't been invited and had some work. I wish I had left out that first part as he got upset and mentioned it to my W. My mistake.
Somehow, you've got to stop sounding like you are a disappointed little boy. Not only does this teach your son to be passive with women, but it's things like this that causes your W to feel you are more like another kid instead of her man.
You'll get there, but it takes time.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
