Would you believe I got all his junk outside and he never showed up like he said he was to get it. Now I guess I need to carry it back in. At least put it in the garage.
Just figures !! I tried to be one step ahead and it was for nothing.
Me:43 H:43 T:20 YRS M:15 YRS Bomb: 6/9/08 Bomb#2 7/6/10 Served with papers at work 7/13/10 DD:14, DD:11
I would have let him know it was outside for him to pick up. Anything not gone by such and such a time will be up for sale. No reason to put your life on hold for him.
New start for you. kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
He said he was bringing a truck for it today, right? He didn't show? His problem. If his things are ruined by weather, then too bad. He didn't do what he said he was going to do. SHOCKER! A WAH that didn't follow through on a promise? Say it ain't so!
I'm sorry for being so sarcastic. These WAS's have zero ability to behave like a responsible person when they are so wrapped up on their 'new' life.
This is your time to take complete control. I understand your reasons for not wanting to push the D through. Since he is still paying all your bills, you are definitely getting a better deal than you would if the D were finalized. Have you gotten training for a new career so you can work full time and pay all the expenses? You need to be prepared because one of these days, your H's GF is going to push him to finalize the D so she can have him all to herself. Trust me, it happens all the time. If you don't have your financial situation under control you could have a serious problem.
Look out for you and your girls as if H is no longer living. If you do that then whatever surprise he decides to pull on you next won't hurt so badly.
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!
ditto above! let the racoons pee on his boxes... hope you didn't move a thing, let him deal with his junk, good riddance... I know it hurts, but boy, do I get angry sometimes at how long I put up with so much crap. He doesn't want to be there then you don't want him either, believe it... let him play house with what's her name and make a new life for you... reality will come crashing down now and then, call a friend, cry it out and they get up again. You WILL be fine, know it.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
Well I did move the boxes in the garage because a storm came by. But his dresser is sitting in the driveway. He still hasn't come by to get any of it.
In fact this week he took the girls on a beach trip. I just got a text from My oldest and she filled me in and let Me Know that they met the girlfriend at the beach house. They are leaving and she came down with friends for the rest of the week. he PROMISED me that he would not introduce them to her until he informed me first that it was going to happen.
Lied again. Another promise broken. Why does he continually feel the need to lie. I will never understand this man. We are divorcing. Why keep liying ?
They are on their way home now but he is stopping first at his new home to show it to the girls. ugh!!!
Me:43 H:43 T:20 YRS M:15 YRS Bomb: 6/9/08 Bomb#2 7/6/10 Served with papers at work 7/13/10 DD:14, DD:11
