Mr Nine I've skimmed through some of your threads (not all). The last two I read completely.

You sir are PURSUING HER to your own detriment. When you let her be the aggressor and let her do the pursuing you end up getting what you want i.e. sex, love declarations etc, etc. When you turn around and push to give her massages, coffees, declarations of love etc, etc, She runs away and avoids.

Why are you running after her like a puppy dog? What do you INSIST on doing what does NOT work with her?

She has just come out of a dysfunctional relationship.
She has been diagnosed with a mental condition.
She has a pattern of jumping from one unhealthy relationship to another.

All I've read in the past two threads is of you playing Mr Knight in Shining Armor dashing to save his little 'angel'. To top that off you have returned to your 'Mr Nice Guy' behavior.

You are doing her a disservice. Give her plenty of time and space and distance. Let her figure out what she wants. Let her mourn her own mistakes WITHOUT dragging you back into her drama.

If you want her back SHE NEEDS TO PURSUE YOU and you need to give her VERY LITTLE assurance for now. If you don't do that I see your Greek tragedy entering the final act.


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