I am glad your son seems to have taken it ok so far. I am going to have to have the same talk soon and I have no idea how this is going to go with my sons.
I don't think talking with OWH is good for you at all. that is only bringing more drama into your life. You can't believe anything OW tells her H. Even if she ends the affair with your H you don't know that will make H want to work on your M. The only people you should worry about right now is you and your son.
I am sorry I know this is hard. I wish I would have logged on here last night I was out of sorts also. It is hard for me to use the computer at home but I guess that will change soon. Will have plenty of computer time.
