Can my relationship be saved?

[a girl]

You know, you're right - talking to OWH is bad for me, and it also shows I do have hope.

I hope she'll end it with my H, and I guess I hope if she does, there's a chance he'll want to work on things.

But I don't have any expectations. And I can't control it. So no more talking to OWH. Thanks for the wakeup call.

Can you elaborate on the "prepare" concept? I'm already working on GAL (plans with friends the nights I don't have S7, trying out for a local chorus, yoga, lots of reading - which sounds boring but I love and never had time for), I've gone fairly dark with H (topic for a journal post), and I'm getting my ducks in order for possible filing for D (parenting plan, etc).