LL, There won't be a problem with that because I'm not taking him back unless he makes some MAJOR changes. I'm not about to go back into that R with him the way he was. Somehow he'd have to make me trust him and I'm not sure he could do that. He certainly has not gone out of his way to do it so far.
I'm not living in fear that he still talks to her. It's much easier to just rmove myself from the whole sitchuation and then I don't worry what he'd doing.
It's very freeing and I'm feeling better now than I have since this all started.
I know he's wondering what's up.
Too bad. I've been wondering for 2 yrs. Its his turn. Rachael