Bea, It appears that the relationship between your xh and ow is a bit "taxing" these days. What your son's gf shared is quite interesting and I do hope that they will visit w/him again in the near future.
Bea, thank you for sharing.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
