Loving, Listening, and Letting Go..

[aeolianchaos]

Pure projection on her part.

I was actually thinking about that - projecting her belief that she needs to be by herself?

Quit talking to her and when you do have to, make it short and sweet.

This was the first conversation we had in a month. Previous to that we were exchanging about 1 sentence a week via email.

Be a man that KNOWS it is her loss

I believe it is a loss for both of us, in different ways - but I think I know what you mean, as far as not seeing myself in a negative light because of it. I am working on this - it is a little overwhelming sometimes as she was the primary money earner and i have some financial stressors because of that, but I'm doing my best to deal with it.