I guess when you don't realy care about what will happen tbetween the two of you it doesn't matter if she still lives there. AS you said, she's just like a very priviledged nanny.
pesonally if H and I divorced I wouldn't want him to be here. But thats just sayin. If D12 needed him I mightjust have to give in. And I would still be standing.
Me:49 H:45 D:12 M:14 T:18 Bomb: 6/26/10 EA: 9/3/10, fizzled out slowly, now ??? 11/5/11 Retrouvaille Finally piecing.... Its peaceful at last, but we got a looong way to go