Sorry to hear that he is still deep in MLC. I think the difficult part about your sitch is that he's with you at home. I think space helps. In learning from my H, they put on a happy face a lot because they think they should, not because they are happy. And we think we can tell the difference but we can't always. When they do that, they aren't being true to themselves and in a way, leave us to blame (because they feel pressured to seem happy for us). The best thing I can recommend is to work on being happy, genuinely happy, regardless of his mood. If he realizes that you don't need him to "be happy", the pressure is off him a bit. But then it also makes them want to be happy with you. It's not easy, and it's got to be genuine. But in the end, it will really help because as you know, you've still got a long road ahead of you and like you said, you can't rule out that he's not talking to OW or planning to leave again. ((Angel))
"Love me when I least deserve it, for that is when I need it the most"
M18 Me39,H42 D16 Bomb 1/10 Moved out 3/10 OW 6/10 H wants to R,OW gone 11/10 H moves back 5/11 H wants to wear rings again 9/11
