AG, Forrest is right to caution speaking with OWH. It is playing with fire. It is up to you, but please note the sharp corners down that path, rebounding is just one of them, getting sucked into their drama is another.

Don’t put to much stock in what she tells her H. She’s a WAS believe none of what she says particularly to him. If she ends the affair what then? Then nothing. So she ends the affair. It’ll affect your H and what is next for him is up to him.

Put your energy into you, into your son, work on being solidly grounded so you will be prepared for what is next. Please don’t get wrapped around the axle spending energy on what if scenarios. I have done so far to many times and wasted a lot of energy on nothing. I am not saying don’t plan. I am saying don’t spend all your energy planning.


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Me 55, ACK, when did that happen? Doesn't feel like 55
D 30
S 27

You create your own universe as you go along - Winston Churchill