Just Be

[Queen_of_Swords]

I am where you are too Denver. Still working, still evaluating and reevalutating myself and all my relationships.

It's painful at times but it's really true, the hardest person to get to know is yourself.

Know yourself.

I know I need and want more from a M than what I had and settled for, and my STBX may not ever be able to give me what I need or want anymore.

You may also reach the same conclusion.

Why do I say that? Because, he stills sees me as "the" problem.

As for giving up, I've had to change Jack's mantra to my own particular personality.


Today is the day I give up control over events, situations, and people that was never mine.
I control only me. The rest is up to God.
I keep hope, optimism and the ability to forgive alive.