Hey DG. Saw your post. Something sruck me when you wrote it: you don't seem "done" yet and you don't seem to have the conclusive proof you posted. Is that right?
I'm not trying to say go one way or the other, but I do recognize what I see and I recognize that marriage is not easy. Often we are put into situations we never expected and always said we would never allow. Or that if this happens, we would do x. We get stretched and we grow regardless of what we used to think
I think you are very wise for waiting to make significant decisions. While you are doing that, I agree that you should not make contact. I don't think that will help you with your decision if that helps.
Being strong doesn't mean doing what others have told you or what others would do. It means finding and doing what you are going to do and being OK with that decision. You do not need to make any decisions right now, but when you do you will have rested and be ready to make a rational decision. Wait for that time. You'll know it when it comes.
Glad the beach was good. Maybe a few more days would be a good idea too?
Take care,
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
