Tad

You asked was this the wrong thing to do.

I cannot answer that direct question but I can tell you this.

Is respecting your wife enough to allow her the room to live her life the way SHE chooses to live, right or wrong?

Before you answer.....consider this....did she always tell you how to live your life?

Look man I am going to be straight with you

The more you keep looking at everything she does, says, acts like...the less time you have to fix your chit.

The other day I sat and spoke with my stbxw.....some anger came out of both of us but also the new me came out. She noticed and I know she did. Did it matter? Does it change things? I pray for her it does. My point is that when u finally look inside and change .....she may notice and at that point......anything is possible. Please tad stop looking at her and start to peel back things about yourself.

That my friend is what just may bring her back!

If it doesn't you'll be a better man, better partner in the future.

God bless
eric....

U know how to reach me...back to the pool I go.


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