My feelings are changing...sitch isn't

[tadpole1025]

Hey everyone. Time for a new thread again.....already!

My old thread is here:

Divorce on the horizon?

There really isn't anything new to report in my sitch these days except that I think my feelings may be starting to change lately. I've noticed over the last few days that I am starting to feel sorry for W. Sure I still hurt and am upset, but I'm actually starting to feel sorry for her. Hopefully, this will help me have some compassion for what she is going through. Are these feelings normal?

Also, last night I posted this on my last thread, but I never got a response. I will post it again. Please let me know your thoughts about whether or not I made a mistake:

I was feeling a little bad about our phone interaction the other day so I sent my W the following text:

M: I'm sorry about the other day on the phone.

W: Why?

M: Just for losing my cool and being an a$$hole. I should have realized that you may not have understood my emails. I just wanted to apologize for it.

W: Ok.

That was it. Nothing more. She lost her cool on the phone as well the other day, but did not apologize. I wasn't expecting one. Was this a wrong thing for me to do? Just curious.

Tad