I asked him if we are done with and of course, no answer.
My take on this... he's not done with you, but he's confused and brain damaged. I think there's a small voice of sanity in many of our WAS that tells them how stupid they are being. I've seen glimpses of that in my own sitch and heard about many more here.
The odd thing is that gives us, the LBS, all the power! If we say we are done, it's over and the WAS may come to regret all they've done. If we decide to trudge along and fight, we know in our hearts we are right and may someday reawaken the person stuck inside the alien.
I'm all in favor of waiting before making any major decisions, but that's me and me alone. You have to decide what is best for you. Hopefully not while in the middle of this emotional whiplash, but if it is, know that you do what you need to do to not just survive, but thrive!
(hugs again)
Me 43 W 38 M 5 T 7 SD20 S15, S13 with 1st W ILYBNILWY June 2010 Separation/Bomb July 2010 Divorce Feb 8, 2011
