Quote: I guess you could have just told me to piss off! Sorry if I was not helpful at all. I'll refrain from further comment. No need to reply to this if this info is not helpful to you in anyway.
oh cindy you hear me all wrong...my frustration is not with you it is with this sit.
of course the things you say are helpful and interesting they are just not helpful to ME. Now if you were talking to my h perhaps a few lightbulbs would be going off and I've explained about 95% of what you are trying to explain to me to him.
I've explained to him the love bank theory. why different actions/inactions are interperted differently by each of us (ie he doesn't like to be called when he's out but I do like to get calls from him while I'm out)
it's not me cindy and it's not a case of "why should I be the one to change"
again I am sorry if you take my frustrations as directed at you they are not.
