gb90, you are spot on. When W walked out of her first marriage, I was right there with lots of warm fuzzies and support. Plus she had a lot of enabling friends and family pushing her to leave; this time, not so much.

jb, you are right; I am dreading the return next Sunday. Already the house looks totally unfamiliar.

dg, thanks for your good wishes. I do have a lot of friends who will make sure I don't spend much time alone.

H 56
W 48
D27,S21
SS25
SS22 Severely autistic
M(#2 for both) 9 1/2 yrs.
"I've never loved you" 3/7/2011
Separated 8/7/2011
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