Thanks Faith, I needed that. It can be confusing and overwhelming trying to "get it right" you know?
The goal is to restore our marriage for all the right reasons. I'm questioning many things at this point, mainly because this past month is the first I've seen a change in waw's behavior/actions/communication CONSISTENTLY since March. It mirrors how she was before the imposter (waw) moved in..
You are right, deep down, I want to scream, "what happened. what has changed. why are u being nice to me. is this a game. is this the real you?" but that would be fishin' for info leading to R talk. And, I haven't brought up R since late May.
The challenge is identifying what I have done in the past month that contributed to the change in her...if anything. And, more importantly, contributing to my feeling better??
However, when getting too engrossed in thinking about it, I feel it's about w and not me. See the conundrum?
I really want to become this big magnet of positive life so anyone and everyone I come across is attracted to this man that only a fool would leave. Work in progress like so many on here.
