I think he is afraid to initiate anything because then he will have to deal with his affair and what it did to my sister. . . . . . .
He said, B, I will never forgive myself for that. Never.
A, I said, that is where you start.
Brooklyn I think you are on the money. So many of them cannot face what they have done. They come quite a long way out, and can 'live' again but it is a half life as they haven't dealt with their real issues.