It is pure Hell and anything I can do to protect my kids and myself, and hopefully protect my W from herself, I will gladly do. I take my vows very seriously and will not abandon any of them in their hour of need.
The first sentence is the first advice given here.
Do it.
the second is a choice.
BUT
Do it for YOU. Don't do it to be a martyr you will lose your way.
Do it because it is who you are.
Do it because it is an expression of yourself.
And maybe.
Maybe.
Of enduring love. How long?
A personal choice...
My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am
