The number one thing about DB is to DO WHAT WORKS, and if it ISN'T WORKING, do something differently.
I know you were joking, but at the same time you feel this. You ask, because you are not sure. KEEP DOING what works. If you see a positive change for you, then enjoy it. Don't worry too much about doing "something else". You have to have a goal and you have to know what YOU want.
When you know what you want and live accordingly, she will be drawn to you.
