Originally Posted By: DelinquentGurl

My marriage is over.

It has been confirmed from reliable sources that my H is having relations with his female "roommate."

To say I am devastated is an understatement.

DG, I am SO sorry. (((hugs)))

Originally Posted By: DelinquentGurl

I cannot forgive cheating. I just can't. We have had numerous talks about deal breakers in our M and cheating was one of them. Even though we are separated, we are married and we discussed not being involved with other people. I guess some where along the way the situation changed, only I was unaware of it.


DG, you have decide what is right for YOU. Only YOU can do that. We will support you regardless of which direction you ultimately go.

Originally Posted By: DelinquentGurl

I know I probably shouldn't, but I feel like God is punishing me in some way.

I can understand how you may feel this way. But I really don't believe this is the case. I think He has used it make you the amazing woman you've become through all this. You have seriously grown. What your H has done does NOT define you. Don't ever forget about all of the progress you've and the new woman you are today versus the woman you were when you started all of this.


BITS
Me:46 / W:47 / M:19 / T:21 / S13
Bomb#1: 5/8/2008
MC: 5/2008 - 4/2010
Bomb#2: 2/10/2011
W moves out 5/7/2011

'With man this is impossible, but with God all things are possible.' - Matt. 19:26