I also need to stop looking at her FB. I know, bring on the 2x4's. I just cannot help it.
Hmmm
Originally Posted By: Lonely in SLC
The other part of me says why should I wait to move on. What do you think? The divorce could take a few more weeks. We are just waiting for the judge to sign off on everything.
Yet your co-dependent and selfish enough to not heal first and THEN give your all to another relationship?
My advice: Figure yourself out and what YOU want. Don't add to the emotional drama. Be confident, cool, and KNOW what you want. The two quotes from you above are contradiction at it's finest. New relationship? You will become very unattractive.
A man needs to know absolutely what he wants and be firm on how he gets it. Watching your ex while getting external validation is NOT the answer.
