Quote: I used to be so fed up that my h SAT there and watched me struggle with the kids, sometimes I cried cause I was so tired/worn out yet he remained sitting while I struggled.
that pretty much got straightened out during the seperation..after a while I just left h with the kids..let him deal with it alone and see what it's like...I think that was the best fathers day gift I ever gave him (fathers day was the first time that I just said to myslef wtf I don't have to stay around here during his visit) he learned that though he doesn't always like it he can be a great daddy.
I do get a reaction from h when I detach...the reaction is...a shove and to throw a cheeze it at me. I'm looking for a bit more than that.
