I've been following your thread and I'm sorry that this happened.
Your progress has been very inspiring and I know that you will be a stronger and more resilient person as a result of all the work that you have done for yourself.
Hold onto yourself and all of your hard-won gains.
Trust that no one is punishing you, and that what your H is doing is a violation of his own integrity, not yours.
Hang in there!
M: 32 W: 29 T: 9 Years M: 4 Years I hit rock bottom: 2/11 PA admitted: 4/11 WAW: 5/11 D filed: 6/11 now: Patience, wisdom, and growth - hopefully.