"She continues to let everyone know that she is getting divorced and how happy she is. Doesn't seem miserable at all....."
This drive me nuts, too, and I agree with everyone that it is all an act. I read somewhere that when they act the happiest is when they are hurting the most. It's where the denial of the depression fits in.
My W made it a point to tell just about everyone at our kids school Open House last night about the D and smiled from ear to ear when she did. Everyone she told that to gave me a look like she was totally insane. And, she is.
M 39 W 41 Married 18 years Together 21 D18 D10 S6 D filed May 16, 2011 Bomb Dropped May 18, 2011 D in process