$4500?!?!?!? Wow, the cost of living must be crazy there. My lawyer only asked for $250 since it looks like it's going to be uncontested, but said she would need at least $1800 if it was going to turn into an ugly custody battle (it won't).
Good luck to you and I hope you never need to go that route.
M 39 W 41 Married 18 years Together 21 D18 D10 S6 D filed May 16, 2011 Bomb Dropped May 18, 2011 D in process