I'm in basically the same boat, except my H is having an affair. He doesn't care about me, at all, and I'm starting to not care about him.

Honestly .. I'm ok with that.

H: 39, Me: 37
SD: 18, S: 7
M: 9, T: 10
"I love you but am not in love with you" - 5/11
Discovered online affair - 7/11