You can detach while living together but its harder I think.
Obviously it helped while you were separated cause he came back. I KNOW he's reverted back to his old ways, but you don't have to! Stay out of his drama and don't let what he does get to you. THAT is detaching.
Just live your life as your happy with or without him and forget that he sleeps on the couch all the time. If your detached YOU DON'T care! Rachael
