One thing I read recently is how children handle stress. D as we all know is a major stress and especially on children. For D9, stress is already hard to deal with and the extra stress of the D can make the meltdowns worse. You are doing great with her. She seems to calm down quickly with you. Continue to work with her on recognizing when she is going to meltdown and teaching her and those working with her techniques to relieve the stress. She will be good!
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