rachael the things that I still do I can't stop doing...
I can't stop cooking good healthy meals for me and the kids so there happens to be enough for him too.
I can't stop cleaning the house...it would just drive me nuts.
I can't stop talking to him when he talks about the kids.
I don't always answer the phone when he calls.
I don't cater to him.
I did the whole detaching thing while he was gone...I was living my life and he was..well I don't know wtf he was doing.
he came home...am I to believe that a detached m where the two are but roomates that occassionally (make that rarely) spend connecting time together is acceptable?
I am beyond the point of detachment...trying to have a m here so my choices are to either continue to live my life and accept that the r with h will be mediocur or continue with my life and hope that one day it will change or I give up.
