In my REAL job I am a physical/chemical scientist. When we write we write sorta vaguely...in the past, in the impersonal...kinda like you write. The only problem is...sometimes, you don't REALLY know what is going on with each person who is witnessing an observation. We started doing so because we document in a way that will pass audit. You are documenting to pass audit here.
And yet, I doubt that is your intention with my experience of you here. You don't really 'care' what others think, you are just evaluating your situation as such.
(What is YOUR take on what I just said?)
FG--join me in KLA 2011. Notify the mods. You know I still keep in touch with them.
Our demons are important. Your wife could not have been expected to have been 'all in' all along. It isn't remotely realistic.
Maybe you really are done. Maybe KLA 2011 or 2015 is realistic to you.
You are important to DB. You are important to DB.com. You are important to sg.
I think you are important to FG. I hope so.
sg Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, LOVE never fails / DB since 2001