One last thing, I really have no choice in the D. It was filed before I was even told. I didn't get a chance to wait it out or be there to support my wife through it. She tossed me away like trash and treated me like something less than that. I doubt I will be able to maintain my resolve as long as I have those things fresh in my memory. I'm going to end up divorced without even being given a chance.
M 39 W 41 Married 18 years Together 21 D18 D10 S6 D filed May 16, 2011 Bomb Dropped May 18, 2011 D in process