Quote: your fed -up of making it easy for him to get outfrom under getting real is that it?
bingo!!!! I know he's capable of being real and it's not just an assumption either...I woulndn't have married a dufis who's only manner of communicating is by throwing food. How to keep the real while still living the reality and do it all peacfully?
advice for me? that's ok I know this is one of those shaky ground sort of thangs...I'll do it my way for a while and see where it gets me...right now it's got me a h who's taking a nap as he was out plowing from 4am to 10am...oh and a h who will be watching the kiddos tommorow while I drive into boston for my eye exam.
is life here unbearable???? no not really I can amuse myself it's when I no longer wish to amuse myself that there will be problems.
