Can my relationship be saved?

[a girl]

The talk went ok, but we'll see how the next week goes. Hopefully all is well.

H informed me that OW is trying to talk her husband into letting her move up here with the kids so they can be together. What's the code for a vomit face?

He also accused me of 'sabotaging' his affair (he called it a relationship) by talking with OWH. I shrugged and said that keeping his affair healthy wasn't really my goal, and I was just trying to help a betrayed spouse who is in a lot of pain.

He got pissy at me but then backed down a little when I basically said, "If I can do anything to ruin this affair, I will. I won't actively seek out ways to do it, but if her husband seeks me out and I give him advice that makes it harder to carry on the affair, good. I will absolutely admit that."

Because you know what? It's true. I'm not going to seek anyone out or try to stir up trouble, but if he asks me for advice, I'll give it to him. I suggested he read DR, although I don't know if he will.