WAW, Filing as Fast as Possible

[aeolianchaos]

I wasn't going to say this b/c I don't know for sure, and I don't want it to hurt you - but I think she's doing it for her - she sounds very all about her - and that was just something to say to make herself look good - something that reflects nicely back on her. (And maybe eases her guilt a little.)

It doesn't hurt me at all. I completely accept that as a possibility.

She tends to be self-absorbed. I think its part of how she survives in the world when she doesn't want to really let anyone know her as she is - it is easier to keep shields up. So yes, I can see where she may be saying it for that reason.

I guess I'm hoping maybe a WAW or someone who has been on this side of the fence might give me some other perspectives. I don't plan on getting my hopes up, but I am trying to read as to whether or not what happened yesterday 'worked' and how I can improve on it.