I think (stress think) cat was worried that you might not feel like you should look at making changes in yourself.
From my own point of view, the 'smart' guys and gals worry me. There seems to be more: "I know...but (I'm different)"'s.
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I am still in shock that things like this happen, and marriages can just end like this after so many years together and having kids together.
It does happen, however, that doesn't mean you have to go gently into that good night.
Your convition, our determination, your vows, your patience, your anger, your despair, your word, your best and your worst...are all fuel. All fuel for the fire to make it as long as you can. To stand when what you envisioned your world to be is crumbling around you, to stand and spit back, "Is that all you got?"
Our character is defined when we are at our worst.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
