Divorce on the horizon?

[tadpole1025]

Thanks everyone. Some comments:

Your emotions are still very much tied to hers, and she pushes that button on you to get you to feel just as crappy as she does..

Does she feel crappy though? She's telling me and everyone how happy she is.

So.....What about the new job ?

I've got a second interview Monday. I'm hopeful.

I say that to answer your question about putting a label on the situation such as MLC. Too much debate as to what that means. But are they crazy? You bet your sweet a** they are! AT LEAST TOWARD YOU they are. And that is what matters. That is why you need to put the distance between you and let her go. You are radioactive to her. You didn't have to do anything to her, but you are getting the blame regardless.

Thanks AJ. Has anyone ever had a spouse say that they want to agree and be civil? I know I've lost my cool a few times, but she hasn't been very civil either.

I've come to think of this as a transient mental illness, aggravated in some magnitude by peri or maybe even underlying undiagnosed psychiatric problems.

Could this all just be menopause?

NOPE not weird at all, she is in PAIN and if you were in PAIN and someone came close to you and tried to HELP you would back off too.

Yeah, before she moved out, she got further and further from me in bed. There were times that I wondered what kept her from falling off.

She continues to let everyone know that she is getting divorced and how happy she is. Doesn't seem miserable at all.....

Tad