Well, yesterday after a month of no contact with ow I saw a text on my husbands phone from her saying when do you want to see me. I promptly replied I don't want to see you, sorry and told my husband to get his stuff and go. He came with the let's wait till the first speech.. It's the 29th so I told him he can sleep in the car till the first or go to the ow.
Then I figured e might as well stay as I can't afford the place on my own and I don't want to have roommates to share the house with.
So anyways he swears up and down that they're just friends and were at the movies and even showed me the receipt of the movie tickets.. Anyways I don't care what they do she's still the ow, and he still keeps telling me he no longer loves me and can't see us happy again, but yet wants to live together.
I suggested that I will move, so he said to stay and be friends. I can't be friends with my husband as if nothing ever happened and it really hurts that he doesn't get it.
So my question is do I still wait to see if he can fall in love with me somehow or should I just pack up the dog and go?
Me: 28 H: 40 Together: 10yrs Married: 6 yrs OW, ILYBNIL: june15/ 2011 I moved out/ ow moved in: nov 2nd/2011 H and ow no longer live together: may 1/2012