Just keep a close eye on the meltdowns. Teachers don't know everything and, as you know, you are your child's best advocate. If you decide that she needs some extra help (it doesn't have to be an entire classroom for ADHD kids, but most schools offer an separate social skills class that they pull kids out for just like they do speech therapy or extra math help, etc.) then tell them that. If you don't fight the fight for her, she won't get the help.
I don't remember, did you say that you had her evaluated for all spectrum disorders?
After years of back and forth and begging and fighting on my part I finally got my son a full psychological workup that took several weeks to complete. After that they finally determined he is actually Aspberger's. You wouldn't believe the doors that opened once they discovered that! Before they didn't know what 'label' to put so they just said he was ADHD and OCD which limited the assistance I could get for him. Now he is still in regular classes but gets TONS of extra help so he's not labeled as a problem anymore! It was a HUGE relief.
I'm absolutely, in no way saying that D9 is on the spectrum, just asking if you have had further testing.
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!
