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2 questions.

Can you do it without incident?

Do you want to do it?

IMVHO

It has disaster written all over it.

However, if it is pulled off cleanly.

Who knows?

I think I'm stumped smile


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I'm not sure it can be pulled off without incident. Especially after the hearing. She still has no idea that I'm bringing my "A" game. She should receive my paperwork either tomorrow or Monday. I'd guess that she isn't gonna want a ride from me after that.

I don't want to give her a ride. Not to a hearing that she brought upon our family.

I'll give her a ride to one of the bridges. lol

On another note, this is barely the second weekend our kids are in her care and she is already having them spend it with my sister and my niece.


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"I think it is best for us both to arrange our own travel for the hearing"

Maybe?

I can understand how it is frustrating her dishing the kids off already.

Keep in mind. All this time we have spent in self reflection and growing...

They have stayed stuck.

Stuck in an illusion.

One they may never get out of.

Stay strong.


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Originally Posted By: Country_Song
"I think it is best for us both to arrange our own travel for the hearing"


I like that. Simple, to the point and not rude like I'd really like to tell her. Thanks

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Maybe?

I can understand how it is frustrating her dishing the kids off already.

Keep in mind. All this time we have spent in self reflection and growing...

They have stayed stuck.

Stuck in an illusion.

One they may never get out of.

Stay strong.


You are right again. I'm going to try to type and post her declaration, my latest declaration and some of the supporting declarations from other. Maybe after Tuesday.

You will be amazed at how much an illusion it really is. She had me believing it at one point. I am curious to see how she reacts when she reads 16 letters from other people proving how distorted her prospective is.


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This song describes where I am at in my journey:

The Black Crowes - Seeing Things

Maybe I can give her a ride and have that song looped. lol


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Well, tomorrow is our hearing in what I hope will be to get my kids back in my care for the upcoming school year. I certainly can use some prayers.

This weekend was interesting. My kids have only been with their mom for 2 weeks and she already had them spend the weekend with my sister and niece. I have a suspicion what my X was up to and it has to do with D-bag #2. As detached as I am, that still hurt.

Thankfully my kids were with my sister. At least they were with someone that I can trust and rely on.

Despite this nonsense from my X, I did go boating with some friends on Saturday and had a blast. The rest of the weekend was mainly focused on my preparation for tomorrow's hearing, with the exception of going to church yesterday.

Sorry for not helping anyone else right now, I have tunnel vision on getting my kids back.


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Originally Posted By: LITB

I certainly can use some prayers.

Got you covered, LITB.

Originally Posted By: LITB

Sorry for not helping anyone else right now, I have tunnel vision on getting my kids back.

No apologies needed from my perspective. You are concentrating in the right place.


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You got it LITB.


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Thanks JB and Country.

I'm looking forward to getting this hearing behind and getting some answers.

I know that I promised to post the X's declaration and my latest one(my response to her's), but I thought I better wait until after the hearing.


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I think that is a good idea.

So educate me.

Will you receive a definitive answer on custoday tomorrow?


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