I would have to say that MC went great. Yes, W is a therapist, but does not work with couples.
This process will be painful and difficult for sure, and I am very optimistic. I'm quite surprised at how deep you can get in only 1 90 min session. Next week is an off week because of schedule issues, then back the following week.
I think both W and I already see that we both caused the other a lot of pain and neither of us did it intentionally -- bad cycles, one of which is already identified.
M: 39 W: 37 Married: 9 D5; S3 "It's Over" 09/26/10 11 Day Sep 10/10 Piecing Starts 11/4/10 Piecing Fails 4/11 I move out 5/11 Hire Lawyer 6/11 - Stall 6/22/11 Piecing #2 - 6/22/11 Home 10/11